This work is for entrepreneurs, founders, executives, and professionals, including lawyers, doctors, and advisors, who are bright and capable but experiencing a persistent gap between what they know they should be doing and what they are actually doing. It is also a strong fit for adult children of founders preparing to step into leadership in a family business.

No. Many clients do not have a formal diagnosis. If you experience traits like distractibility, time blindness, emotional intensity, inconsistent follow-through, or difficulty with sustained effort on tasks that do not interest you, this coaching can help. The pattern matters more than the label.

Very common, and it describes a large share of this practice. Robert was diagnosed at 40, in the middle of running his companies.

This group is genuinely distinct from someone diagnosed as a child. You spent your childhood and most of your adult life with an untreated difference you did not know you had. So you built other explanations for it. That you were lazy. Careless. Disorganized. Not trying hard enough. And you succeeded anyway, usually by working harder than the people around you and by quietly hiding the parts that were not working.

That history leaves a specific residue. Imposter syndrome, because the success never quite felt like it belonged to you. A loud inner critic, because you spent decades supplying the criticism yourself. And often a strange kind of grief, re-reading your own life with accurate information for the first time.

Those are core areas of specialization here, alongside the practical execution work. A diagnosis in your forties or fifties does not undo any of it on its own. What it gives you is an accurate frame. The work is what you build on top of it.

Traditional executive coaching often assumes consistent follow-through and linear execution. Many entrepreneurs with ADHD do not operate that way, not because of a lack of discipline, but because of how executive function works under pressure. This work integrates an understanding of how ADHD shows up specifically under leadership pressure, direct experience building and running a business, and a practical approach to structure and emotional regulation.

Because the traits that built the company are not the traits that run it.

Early on, ADHD can be an advantage. Hyperfocus, speed, tolerance for chaos, and comfort deciding with incomplete information are genuinely useful when the company is small and you are touching everything. Urgency does the organizing for you.

Scale takes that away. The job shifts to delegation, consistency, systems, and holding a direction steady across months instead of days. Those are precisely the executive function demands that ADHD makes hardest.

Nothing has gotten worse about your brain. The role changed underneath you.

The work is building external structure that does what urgency used to do, and making the move from being the person who does everything to the person who leads through systems and other people.

Yes, and it is one of the more common reasons people arrive here.

ADHD burnout at an executive level is not the same as ordinary overwork. There is a cost that never shows up on anyone's calendar: the energy spent masking, the effort of appearing consistent when your capacity is not, the mental overhead of tracking everything manually because you do not trust yourself to remember it, and the recovery cost of every deadline that got handled by adrenaline at the last possible hour.

You are running the business, and running a second invisible system to keep the first one looking normal.

That is exhausting in a way a vacation does not fix, because the whole load comes back the moment you do.

The work goes at both layers. Reducing the actual load through structure, delegation, and honest prioritization, so less of your week is running on willpower. And reducing the emotional cost through the self-leadership side: what is driving the overcommitting, and what it takes to stop treating your own capacity as a character flaw.

This is one of the most common things leaders bring to a first session, and it usually shows up the same way. Your team is never quite sure which version of you they are getting. Priorities move between Monday and Wednesday. A project gets intense attention for a week and then goes quiet. Follow-up is inconsistent, so people learn to wait rather than move.

The instinct is to try harder to be consistent. That rarely holds, because it runs on the exact resource that fluctuates.

What works better is making your leadership predictable at the system level instead of the personal level. Fixed meeting rhythms that do not depend on you remembering them. A short list of stated priorities that cannot change mid-week without an explicit decision. Delegation with real ownership rather than delegation you keep reaching back into. And a degree of directness with your team about how you actually operate, which almost always lands better than leaders expect.

Consistency becomes something your structure provides. That frees your energy for the parts of leadership only you can do.

Even highly successful leaders often experience guilt when focus and motivation fluctuate. Rather than pushing harder, the work moves toward clarity, emotional stability, and self-leadership: a steadier sense of purpose that does not depend on pressure or self-criticism to function.

Yes. Many high-performing leaders with ADHD arrive home mentally depleted, making consistency and presence difficult in close relationships. The coaching addresses reliability, emotional availability, and recovery, so the gap between how you lead at work and how you show up at home begins to close as well.

Each session has two parts that work together. The first half is tactical: we address immediate challenges like follow-through, procrastination, task overwhelm, and time management. Using my W5 Method, we co-create actionable next steps tailored to what is actually happening in your work and life that week.

The second half draws on the Mindful Intelligence method: building emotional resilience, increasing awareness of the internal patterns driving avoidance or self-criticism, and aligning your actions with longer-term goals and values.

W5 is a clarity tool that breaks overwhelm into concrete, do-able steps while adding accountability and intention to every goal. The five questions are: What is the next step? When will it happen? Where will you do it? Why does it matter? Who can support you or will be impacted? Answering all five questions closes the gap between intention and follow-through.

Mindful Intelligence combines neuroscience, emotional regulation strategies, and executive function tools into a practical, ADHD-friendly system. The goal is not to quiet your mind. It is to develop the ability to notice what is driving a decision or a delay before it hijacks the meeting, the day, or the relationship.

Yes. Mindful Intelligence is not about sitting on a cushion. It is designed specifically for real-life ADHD minds: short, practical techniques that integrate into daily activity, like noticing when the inner critic kicks in, breathing through a moment of overwhelm, or pausing before reacting in a high-stakes conversation. The goal is awareness, not silence.

That is exactly why this approach works. Mindful Intelligence meets you where you are. We start with micro-strategies that help you tune into what is happening without stopping your momentum. You do not need to slow down to gain clarity. You need the right tools to notice what is happening while you are moving.

The signs that tend to emerge first: increased follow-through on things that previously slipped, reduced emotional reactivity or overwhelm, decisions getting made with less circling, and a stronger sense of control over where your time and attention are going. Confidence tends to follow from evidence, from seeing yourself do what you said you would do.

They answer different questions. Therapy tends to look backward and inward, at where patterns came from and at clinical conditions that need treatment. Coaching looks at what is happening in your work and life now, and what you are going to do about it this week. Coaching is not therapy and it is not a substitute for treatment.

In practice the line is less clean than that sounds, because with ADHD the execution problem and the emotional one are rarely separate. When you have been missing commitments for twenty years, the follow-through issue and the inner critic are the same issue. So this work does go into emotional territory: reactivity, avoidance, self-criticism, and what is actually driving a delay. It stays pointed at action.

Do you need both? Sometimes. A number of clients work with a therapist alongside this and the combination works well. If something surfaces that belongs in therapy, I will say so directly rather than coach around it.

No. Coaching works with medication or without it, and the medication decision belongs between you and your physician.

The two do different jobs. Medication can change how much attention is available to you. It does not decide what you do with that attention, build the systems that hold your week together, or address the self-criticism most adults carry after years of inconsistent follow-through. That part is the coaching work.

Clients arrive at every point on this. Medicated and doing well but still stuck on execution. Medicated and finding it is not enough on its own. Deliberately unmedicated. Still deciding. All of those work here. I am not a physician and do not advise on medication, but the coaching is built to hold up either way.

Yes, and the strongest evidence sits behind the specific methods rather than behind the word "coaching" itself. Research on adults with ADHD consistently supports structured, skills-based, goal-directed work that targets executive function directly, and organizations including CHADD have documented coaching outcomes in follow-through, organization, and self-regulation.

This practice is built on those methods rather than on general life coaching. The approach draws on Solution-Focused Coaching, cognitive behavioural approaches adapted specifically for adult ADHD, mindfulness-based practice, and Internal Family Systems, all applied in a coaching context rather than a clinical one.

What that means week to week: the work is structured, it targets specific behaviours, and progress is measured by what actually changes in your week. If nothing is changing in your week, the coaching is not working, and that is a conversation worth having early rather than late.

Robert Pal is an ADHD executive coach based in Toronto with over ten years in practice and 25 years before that founding and running companies.

His formal training includes Solution-Focused Coaching through the University of Toronto's Factor-Inwentash Faculty of Social Work, IFS Coaching for Self-Leadership and IFS-Informed training through the Internal Family Systems Institute, Cognitive Therapy for Adults with ADHD with Mary Solanto, Ph.D., Adult ADHD as a Reward Deficiency Syndrome with J. Russell Ramsay, Ph.D., Cognitive Behaviour Therapy and Narrative Therapy at the Hincks-Dellcrest Centre, Positive Psychology Coaching, Interpersonal Neurobiology with Daniel Siegel, M.D., and applied neuroplasticity with Rick Hanson, Ph.D.

He is the author of Mindful Intelligence, a featured expert on CBC's The Nature of Things with David Suzuki, and a contributor to ADDitude magazine and CHADD's Attention magazine.

The training matters. It is not the thing that makes the difference.

Robert founded and led Lapor Inc. and Illusions International, served as President of EO Toronto and on the EO International Board, and was selected for the Entrepreneurial Masters Program at MIT Sloan. He was diagnosed with ADHD at 40, in the middle of running those companies. Clients tend to say some version of the same thing: he has sat where they sit, so the conversation starts several steps further along than it otherwise would.

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I am based in Toronto and coach virtually with entrepreneurs, executives, and professionals across Canada, the United States, and internationally. Sessions are conducted by Zoom, and most of the practice is virtual by design.

For clients in Toronto and the Greater Toronto Area, in-person sessions are available where they make sense. Retreat facilitation takes me across the United States, Canada, and Mexico.

Location has turned out to matter less than consistency. Most clients find a protected weekly Zoom slot easier to maintain than scheduling around travel, and that consistency is what makes the work hold.

Coaching packages start at US $3,500 for ten weekly 60-minute sessions, or US $5,000 for ten weekly 90-minute sessions. Ten sessions is the standard starting point.

For work focused squarely on ADHD challenges like task initiation, follow-through, and time management, one block of ten is often enough to build the structure and get it holding on its own.

From there it varies. On the entrepreneurial, executive, and professional side, many of these relationships run for years. What tends to happen is that once the ADHD piece is working, the conversation widens into business and personal opportunities or challenges, still looked at through an ADHD lens. Those clients stay because the work keeps being useful, not because of a contract.

Which of those you are likely looking for is something we can usually tell on the introductory call.

Coaching is not typically covered under standard health insurance. Some clients access it through a Health Spending Account (HSA) or under professional development provisions. If you are unsure, it is worth checking with your provider directly.